Everyone wants to be seduced - no one wants to be be lied to, manipulated, or taken advantage of

So, some of you are probably wondering why I'm alowing such sophmoric comments on my blog.

It's to show how adolecent "the community" is in it's orientation and thinking.
There are some very powerful ideas floating around regarding seduction on the internet. Unfortunately, they are oftent the product of feeble minded chauvanism, both on the part of females (the "rules") and males ( Way of the "alpha male")

A sure sign of this is when a guy accuses another of being gay or closeted.
These same guys like to divide women into madonnas and whores. They are not at all integrated sexually, and there identity is bound up in what they percieve as "correct" gender roles.
This is to be expected I suppose - gender roles have been in flux over the ast 40 years, and a backlash against femenism and the wimpification of men was inevitable I suppose.

The problem is, it's gone too far. I was banned from mASF for advocating what amounts to love as the basis for an ethical approach to mutual seduction between the sexes:

Acceptance

Compassion

Empathy

Detachment

It's all well and good to give men back thier masculine power. It needed to be stripped away for a time as punishment for it's excesses and the resulting oppression and abuses it generated. Femenisim went to far too.

Now, as the sexes seek a balanced center, the extremes of both movements are laid bare.

Niether sex is superior to the other. Each has a biological destiny that guides it's emotional life. Niether should be denegrated, rather, both should be accepted, embraced, and celebrated. Empathy is the key to understanding, and compassion the act of engaging these differences in a positive way.

Detachment kills needy supplicating behavior for both sexes - the willingness to walk away from bad people, bad encounters, and bad relationships without the HATE, ANGER, disapointment and frustation that most of us feel when we don't get what we want from others emotionally.

Aced represents mature, agape love. I feel that this is the best basis for relating to other human beings. Lust and romantic love are a rush - but they ultimately leave s in a bad state if not tempered with more mature states of relating to others.

I'll never post another "lay report" or divulge when I've had sex with a new woman, or for that matter, how many women I've had sex with publicly. That sort of thing should be kept private, and only revealed to those it matters to - my sexual partners.

I do not regret my involvement with the seduction community - on the contray - it opened my eyes to some very profound and basic truths about human behavior. Once you master seduction however ( and every man should seek to master it, just as every woman should) you are confronted with some very deep ethical delimas. Each person must live with the consequences of his actions - all I'm advocating is that we take the effect our actions have on others very seriously.