DHV Theory

Telling someone you are training to be an opera singer is different than hitting a high "C" that shatters their wine glass.
DEMONSTRATE!
Don't try to tell or convince, DEMONSTRATE.
I am a college teacher.
If I tell someone how the world is, they scoff. When I demonstrate how the world is, they WORSHIP.
I am fortunate, in that my particular field of teaching is filled with very hot young women - and I mean HOT. Maxim girl, super model hot. I just spent the evening looking down at the bare ass cracks of no less than 5 little hotties as they sweated over their final projects ( and I get paid $60 per hour for the privilege) . I teach very specific technical skills to them where they either follow my example, or fail. I like to give the girls enough rope to hang themselves, and then, just as they are about to fall over the edge of the cliff, I rescue them. This demonstrates value.
As a teacher, you have built in social proof and pre-selection (pretty much all the girls have crushes on you, and they compete with each other for your attention). It is a lot like being a rock star in that respect, except that you lose your job if you fuck the groupies (ask me how I know this). So I use my job as a lab for indirect game, and I have learned that a DEMONSTRATION of value is far more powerful than a CLAIM to value in generating attraction.
Mystery uses magic tricks that dominate a woman’s reality. I happen to be an expert in the skill sets that I teach. Some PUAs use palmistry or Tarot, or cold reads. All of these DEMONSTRATE value.
In bars and clubs, my teaching skills are useless, so DHV is a sticking point for me also, at least in the real world. I’ve considered learning astrology, palmistry, or Tarot, but fuck, it’s just such bullshit, that I don’t think I can be congruent with it. I’m still seeking the ultimate civilian DHV that I can be congruent with – my two big hobbies are skiing (I’m an expert) and car racing (National Champion Level). The problem is, I can’t very well demonstrate these skills in a fucking bar.