Wednesday, March 19, 2008

Ferrari Girl Sarge

So I've been following the advice of MASF for several months now, and have been gaming multiple women - I've even started a spread sheet to track my sarges - and it's definitely starting to pay off.
One chick (HB8) in particular is interesting, because she is in an LTR with a VERY rich guy who won't commit to her. I see her several times per week, and she runs hot and cold on this guy, so I basically ignore her whining about him by interrupting and fucking with her - like by un-tieing her shoes when she says something super serious, or making sexual innuendoes and overtures towards her in a playful way.
I've texted and e-mailed her several times with invitations and other flirtatious nonsense, and she never replies - but she always wants to sit with me when I see her - ...and I always fuck with her when she does - playfully of course, with teasing, light negs, and other chick crack nonsense. This has been going on for several months, and she is one of many ongoing projects of mine.
Well, yesterday, I greeted her with "Hey! It's Miss America!" as she was approaching her boyfriend, and she got all pissed and said "I dont like that!"
Old Baddog would have been all "I'm so sorry, please forgive me, here is my nutsack on a platter, blah,blah,blah"
New Baddog said "yes you do!" and immediately did a backturn, started chatting up his buddies, then completely ignored her for 20 minutes, and bailed.
Today, she walked in to the venue without her boyfriend, and approached me and my posse. Before she could say a word, I said "Go away - you were mean to me yesterday!" in a half serious voice....she then immediately apologized, and said she had been thinking and worrying about what she had done all day :D She also said she had seen me out with a group of women Friday (both HB 9.5s, some might say 10s), and that she felt that I had ignored her (I didn’t even see her) :p
Then I gave her a big hug and told her "You know I'm TOTALLY in love with you right?" in a playful way. I then told her to sit down, and right there in front of the whole place, I took her shoes off and starting giving her a foot massage!
SHE then suggests isolation ("this doesn’t seem right here"):cool: So I take the lead and take her for a long walk on the beach...
More footsie, and I attempt to escalate with a kiss, she says she's "uncomfortable" because of her boyfriend. I say, "it's cool, I've got stuff to do" and get up to bail. As we part, she want's a hug, and when I go in, it's clear now she wants a kiss on the lips, So I give her a peck on the cheek...:lol:
Then she wants to see where I live but she's afraid I'll make a pass at her - I tell her "You should be so lucky" and cross my arms. Then I tell her I'm not going to be her "girlfriend" and she asks what I want. I just say "look into my eyes" and I start triangular gazing until she can't handle it anymore and smiles and looks down, breaking gaze. I then say "goodbye" and walk away....
One of the interesting things about this sarge is that her BF is the biggest AMOG in town, a real dick swinger who is always in everybody’s face, and like I said, he is super rich, good looking, and powerful (and a bit of an asshole). I’m none of those things (except maybe the asshole thing:-), yet I’ve got his little woman completely tranced out on me.
Survival of the smartest and most skillful…..not the best looking or richest. You gotta love it.

The old me would have kept trying to escalate - maybe I would have succeeded too -I was about 50/50 in similar situations in my AFC days. The problem is with the frame this sort of behavior sets:
Me = Sexually needy.
Her = Control Baddog with sex.
When you get into a relationship, this is VERY bad. You start kissing ass so you can get laid, and she loses attraction and respect for you.
She needs to realize from the outset that what I'm offering is valuable, and that it might not be there next time she want's it, or feels in the mood.
My basic frame with her is this:
"I want you, but I don't need you. I have other options, and my self-esteem does not depend on your whims. I'm giving you a shot because I like you... so don't blow it."
She is a long term project - I've had her in attraction for ages, and have had good Kino with her for quite some time. This was my first opportunity at isolation, and I figured building comfort and frame control were more important than acting like an out of control, horny teenager trying to get laid.;)
…and don’t worry, I’ll isolate her again….

1 comment:

AFDesi said...

LOL, and I thought I was the only one with a spreadsheet... it is helpful though, no? Esp if you're holla'ing at a lot of girls, I kind of use it to keep track of when I'm supposed to call the flakier ones back.

... oh no, I've said too much! :-X

-AFDesi
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