Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Why should men study seduction?

When you study music, the first thing you learn is theory and notation. You might have a song in your heart, but without understanding the rules and language of musical expression, that song will remain gibberish. I've come to learn that love is much the same. When people first meet and feel love at first sight, it’s not love: its just a powerful attraction.
This is how nature tricks us into making babies. It's cool, but it's not love. With time, you might actually grow to love each other. When I feel this sort of attraction for a woman I recognize it for what it is and honor it, but I have enough control over my emotions to choose how to act on it.
Now, I don't know what you think, but I find that fucking a wide variety of beautiful women is FUN! Call it shallow if you like, but hey, it's like mining for gold - you will probably have to go through a lot of women before you find "the one” =)
It’s important to understand women, the games they play with men, why they play these games, and the rules of attraction. Why is it that women can sit around endlessly discussing how to land a man, but if men do it about women, its “gay”?
Young, attractive women have a huge advantage in social situations. PUA's simply use women's own weapons to even the playing field. Even married guys need to understand these principals. I know several middle aged guys with children who's wives slowly became dissatisfied with them (they lost attraction and eventually respect for them), and filed for divorce, taking the kids. This destroyed the guy's self esteem, because the guy had his whole world and identity wrapped up in his marriage and family. It also destroyed them financially. One guy I know was close to suicide over it, and only his DOG pulled him through. He is a nice, smart, successful guy too.
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After their second child, his wife stopped fucking him for 8 YEARS, and he still stuck with her because he didn’t think he could get another woman. Pathetic. He will also owe her alimony for the rest of his/her life.
I love women, but I don’t NEED them. I am a complete person on my own. Ironically, that is exactly the type of man women find attractive, so I have my pick of the litter.

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