Pre Selection and Attraction

I’ve been thinking a lot about the pre selection switch lately, and how so much of what we PUA’s do is related to triggering it. I think that some of the things we do are obviously pre selection triggers like pivots, lipstick, and photos, but others are not so obvious:

Clothing:
Years ago I had a girlfriend who explained what she thought about poorly dressed men:
“No woman would let her man leave the house dressed like that – he must be single”
At the time I didn’t realize the significance of this declaration, but as I grow to understand the art of seduction, it’s clear that all the women in my life have tried to influence the way I dress – from my mother on down. It is programmed into them for some reason. I think it might actually be a territorial thing – advertising to other females that this is “their” man. My latest lay resulted the week after I let her do a “make-over” on me – right down to a manicure/pedicure!

Grooming:
Similar to poor clothing – poor grooming sub-communicates that you have no mate. Cut your hair regularly, shave, bathe, trim nose hair and fingernails. Keep your skin healthy.

Aloofness, non neediness:
Again, Pre-selecton: A male with a mate behaves differently towards other females. One of my best friends went several YEARS without pussy because he exhibited needy behavior around women. He is a very good looking guy too – tall, muscular, great teeth, nice eyes, intelligent, etc.
Well, by luck or whatever ( I like to think it was my coaching) he has been getting pussy regularly recently. What is amazing is how other women now react to him, or rather how aloof he is towards other women since he is “in love”. It’s like waving a red flag in front of a bull – The other day a hot latina woman was sitting next to him, and he was totally ignoring her – while texting his sweetheart -. She actually started pawing him to get his attention. Me and another buddy (who is a natural who claims to have laid over 300 women) were dumbstruck by the turnaround in his behavior, and the reactions he now gets.
I’ve been getting pussy for the last week, and I’ve noticed a change in my behavior, and the familiar IOIs it generates.
Bottom line – The pre-selection switch is your friend – even while in a relationship you should use it to keep your value high in the eyes of your mate.